Livin' La Vida Loca - Ricky Martin

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Like A Virgin/Hollywood/Work IT (Music Video) - by Madonna, Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera, Missy Elliott

Title: Like A Virgin/Hollywood/Work IT
Author: Madonna, Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera, Missy Elliott
Description: The video shows the famous kiss from Madonna and Britney Spears (and Cristina Aguilera), which was discussed in the whole world.
Time: 5:39
Preview:

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Fallen (Music Video) - by Janno Gibbs

Download this song: Fallen - Janno Gibbs
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Title: Fallen
Author: Janno Gibbs
Time : 4:25

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Manila, Philippines Overview

Metropolitan Manila encompasses six cities and 12 towns. Located on Manila Bay in the South China Sea, and bisected by the Pasig River, the capital of the Philippines is historic and modern, rich and poor.A popular sight is the walled area called Intramuros. The capital during Spanish colonization, Intramuros has retained old dungeons and gunpowder rooms but added art galleries and theaters. The city is filled with museums, shops, parks and churches, plus enough nightlife to last until dawn.
Manila Weather & When to Go:
Manila is a tropical country -- so there are only two seasons: wet and dry. The weather and temperature rarely changes which means you can visit Manila any time of the year. If you're touring, it's best to avoid the rainy season in July and August.Eighty degrees is an average temperature throughout the year, although how this feels can vary with the humidity. Nights rarely get cold, even during the winter months. Updated weather information for Manila can be found online at http://www.wunderground.com/global/stations/98429.html or http://weather.cnn.com/weather/forecast.jsp?locCode=MANX

Travelers interested in heading to Manila during important events throughout the year should know that Manila celebrates major international holidays such as Christmas, New Years and Easter as well as local holidays.

Manila Health & Safety:
Most of the business districts, such as Makati, Ortigas, Bonifacio Global City, and Eastwood, and the primary tourist spots such as Intramuros, are generally safe areas for tourists. Of course, use common sense. As with all tourist areas, pickpockets will abound, so bring a bag that you can wear close to your body and avoid wearing valuables and flashy jewelry. Avoid travelling alone in dark areas.
Tap water is not potable in Manila. When in doubt, drink mineral/distilled water or soda.

Manila History:
The early history of Manila begins in the middle of the sixteenth century, when Muslims settled along the Pasig River and started a religious community there. The area was originally ruled by a triumvirate made up of two leaders who ruled in the south and one leader who ruled in the north. (For more about the general neighborhoods of Manila, visit http://www.tripadvisor.com/Travel-g298573-s204/Manila:Luzon:Neighborhoods.html)

The Muslim community did not have long to thrive. In 1570, Spanish conquistadores arrived in the area and took over. They destroyed the Muslim settlement and created a walled fortress at Intramuros. They used the area as an export base for silver mining. Eventually, the area was named capital of the Philippines.

Modern interest in Manila did not come to the forefront until World War II. The Manila Massacre was an important battle in that war, and the area was considered to be of great importance in the struggle between the United States and Japan.

Since that time, Manila has been doing its best to rebuild itself as a city. Tourism has only recently become a major industry in the area. An influx of tourists in the area has lead to renewed growth and revitalization which has never been seen before in the history of Manila.

Manila Neighborhoods:
Manila is divided in to sixteen distinct neighborhoods, known locally as districts. These sixteen districts are categorized into south districts and north districts with the area of Pasig being the dividing line between the districts.

· South Districts

o Ermita – This is one of the most popular tourist areas in Manila. Daytime attractions and nightlife spots are generally located here.

o Intramuros

o Malate – This is the other of the most popular tourist areas in Manila. Daytime attractions and nightlife spots can be found here.

o Paco

o Pandacan

o Port Area – This district is a relatively new neighborhood in comparison with the other neighborhoods of both the south and north districts.

o San Andreas Bukid – This neighborhood was originally a part of the Santa Ana neighborhood but grew in to its own. It retains much of the flavor of Santa Ana with a more modern style.

o Santa Ana – Santa Ana is considered the old town sister district of San Andreas Bukid.

· North Districts

o Binondo – This is the Chinatown of Manila.

o Quiapo

o Sampaloc – This is considered the old town sister district of Santa Mesa. The two districts are very similar but this one has more history.

o San Miguel

o San Nicolas

o Santa Cruz

o Santa Mesa – This district was originally a part of the Sampaloc neighborhood but grew enough to become its own area.

o Tondo – This is a primarily residential area and is considered by many to be the “bad neighborhood” of Manila. It is safe, but there are not too many reasons for tourists to travel here.


Manila Recommended Reading:
Many travelers find that it is helpful to do some reading about the intended travel destination before finalizing plans for the trip. This can provide insight about the best ways to travel, the best things to see and the nature of the people and the culture of the area. Travelers interested in supplementing their Manila travel plans in such a fashion may consider reading the following books:

“The Rough Guide to the Philippines” by Rough Guides provides basic travel information for visitors just getting started in trying to figure out what they want to do during their Manila vacation.
“Lonely Planet Diving and Snorkeling Philippines” by Heneage Mitchell is a guide to the best water adventure options in and around Manila.

Continuition

Manila Arriving & Departing:
Many tourists in Manila stay in the Makati area because of its proximity to excellent lodging, dining, and nightlife. The trip from the Ninoy Aquino International Airport to central Makati can take anywhere from 20 minutes to more than an hour, depending on what time of day you are travelling. It is best to avoid the rush hours of 7-9am and 5-7pm, during which traffic can get quite nad.

There are several transportation options available to you. First, there is the Airport Taxi service that you will notice on the left side as soon as you exit the airport's arrival area. This service typically uses Sports Utility Vehicles (larger than the typical city taxis) to bring you to your destination. Depending on where you are going, your trip may cost anywhere from around US$7.50 to US$11 for travel within the Metro Manila. This is generally a safe option as the license plate and driver details are logged and a copy of the information slip is given to you. The rate is agreed upon prior to departure and will not change upon reaching your destination.

An alternative option is to arrange for a hotel car to pick you up and drop you off at your hotel. These need to be arranged in advance, as only the most exclusive hotels have permanent booths set-up outside the arrivals area. This is probably one of the most expensive options, ranging anywhere from US$20 to US$40 depending on the hotel. The vehicles are usually nice and well-maintained, and you will be driven my a member of the hotel's staff.

Finally, the most affordable option is to turn right upon exiting the arrivals area, and go up the outside stairs to the departures area. You can then take a city taxi (there are plenty dropping passengers off at the airport). The tricky thing about this is you need to have a general idea of where you're going and you need to be confident and assertive to make sure you are not overcharged. You need to insist that the driver use his meter and not add on any additional charges. A trip to Makati will only cost you about US$2 using this method.

An alternative to this is to book a 'hotel' car in advance from your hotel. When you depart from the baggage claim area and turn right you will see a hotel waiting area as well as several unitformed 'greeters'. In particular the Shangrila, Peninsula and Mandarin are quite conspicuous. You will have several choices; Mercedes Benz or Toyota sedan. They are both clean and relatively inexepensive $40 - 75 one way. The driver will greet you with a cool towel, bottled water and newspapers.

Manila Public Transportation:
So you want to travel to Manila and use the public transport system... locally, we call that "Commuting"; and often times this means riding either (one or a combination of) tricycles, pedicabs, jeepneys, FXs, elevated trains, and buses. Many, if not all hotels and hostels in and around Metro Manila are a short walk to take your ride to somewhere else. So let's break it down according to mode of transportation:

Light Rail Transits (LRT, MRT, MRT 2)
The rail transits have three lines: the LRT and MRT 2 and the MRT, which travels along Metro Manila's main highway, EDSA. (Click on the links to view the different lines.) The RT lines are interconnected (ex. you can transfer from the MRT Taft station to the LRT Baclaran station), but there is a separate fare for each line. Single journey tickets and stored value tickets (tickets that have been preloaded with credits) are sold for each line. If you plan to use the RTs frequently, it is best to purchase a stored value ticket to avoid long lines at ticket booths during rush hours. The RTs are the quickest way to get around Metro Manila while avoiding the traffic. Be prepared, however, to brave the crowds especially during rush hour, when the trains are usually packed.

Taxi Cabs
For safety reasons, it is advised to call a taxi company in advance for a cab, or to call a cab from a hotel (although this may be more expensive than regular taxis). If you're not a local, the cab driver will more often than not, ask for a flat fare that is at least two times the usual, so always demand the driver to turn the taxi meter on, and take note of the plate number upon boarding. Its advisable also to have extra coins & small denominated bills with you so you can pay the exact fare, as most taxi drivers do not give change. Tipping is optional, but 20 pesos is enough.

Pedicab
The simplest form of public transport includes a bicycle with an attached sidecar. Although phased-out and illegal in most parts of Metro Manila, pedicabs can be found in and around the Metropolis. The "driver" is usually male and the age range is from the teens on up. The charge is a flat fare, usually PhP 10.00 - 30.00 per person. Never settle beyond PhP 30. The cab has two seating areas that face each other. The seat that faces forward is the wider seat and is probably less than a meter long. The seat facing back is much narrower and meant for children, although you may see teenagers on up sitting on them too. Best practice is to always ask for the fare before getting on; personally, I think most foreigners wouldn't even get in one since pedicabs in the Metro seldom travel more that two (2) kilometers "point-to-point".

Tricycles
There are more than 700,000 tricycles in the Metro. Tricycles normally link a business/commercial area to the residential areas, or main road to the "inards" of a locality. You hire a trike for either a "special trip", or "regular trip". All this really means is that you are either going solo (special trip) or waiting for the trike to fill up with other passengers (regular trip). Unlike pedicabs, tricycle normally ply their routes in an area with a pre-defined boundary. So within this area, you will pay a flat fare. The fares vary from place to place, but to give you an idea: a special trip usually starts from PhP10.00 up to, but not over Ph35.00; regular trips, on the other hand, start from PhP7.50 up to PhP15.00. However, if your trip will take you across say two boundaries, the flat fare is multiplied by three (3) times. Word to the wise: tryke drivers tend to be the craziest (read: most dangerous) drivers.

Jeepneys
I think they came into vogue right after the Second World War. Among equipment left behind by the Americans were the Willy's Jeeps, probably in the thousands. They were inherently sturdy and very easy to maintain; and had the ability to take you wherever their wheels could get traction. I think at that time these Jeeps could accomodate about six to eight people (including the driver). Today's jeepneys retain the traditional look of the Willy's Jeep at the front, but have passenger areas that can seat anywhere from 14 to 24 people. The basic fare in Metro Manila is PhP7.50 for the first four (4) kilometers, then there's a fixed additional fee for every unit of distance travelled. (I can remember if it's PhP1.00 per kilometer, so please don't quote me.) Some jeepney routes cover four (4) kilometers or less, while others travel much longer routes. Best practice is to ask any of the locals in the establishment where you're staying. More often than not, they'll be able to tell you which jeepneys to take, and how much you'll have to pay. Most driver are reasonably safe (in the local context) although there are those who believe that only they have the right to use and were probably tricycle drivers not too long ago.

Manila Taxis & Rental Cars:
For the most part you don't need a rental car in the Phillipines. In major cities taxis are cheap and cheerful. Just make sure they turn on the meter. In the Provinces jeepneys and trikes (motorcycles w/a sidecare) are the best choices. Just be aware that trike drivers are the one of the biggest banditos in the country, often trying to charge you well over what a metered taxi costs in Manila or Cebu. If you want to travel long distances you can hire a car and driver for reasonable prices. Be aware that hiring a car and driver at the hotel will cost you more than getting one on the street. Taxis will also drive you anywhere but you will have to baragin for the price. For long disatnace travel buses are good value. If there are many of you, just hire a car and driver or a taxi. Finally, ferries and domestic airlines go everywhere in the Phillipines and fares are very reasonable. Ferries are the choice if you want to mix with the locals, or get an overnight cabin or are into a leisurely travel with seaviews of the islands along the way without paying a fortune.

Unfortunately many taxi drivers do not turn on their meters when you get in. Check and ask - each and every time. Many drivers will claim their meters are broken or not working. Others just flatly refuse to turn on the meter. This is illegal; taxis are not allowed to operate at all, unless their meter is working and turned on. If a taxi driver refuses to turn on his meter, just get out of the taxi and get the next one - there are always plenty of taxis around in Manila. If you travel by un-metered taxi you can expect to get ripped off and charged at least double the proper fare. There is a hot-line for reporting taxi drivers who break the rules to the controlling organization, LTFRB, but this is ineffective and does not result in drivers' taxi licenses being suspended.

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Independence Day June 9; three-day holiday declared

MANILA, Philippines—The country will observe another long weekend two weeks from now.

As part of its “holiday economics,” Malacañang Wednesday reminded that Independence Day will be observed on June 9, a Monday. It will be a non-working holiday as earlier declared by Proclamation No. 1463 which had set specific dates of movable holidays. “All activities and celebrations in commemoration of Independence Day shall, however, remain to be observed on June 12,” deputy presidential spokesperson Lorelei Fajardo said. Christine O. Avendaño.
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Smoking Cessation Health Channel

When I get home I just love to go out the back and have a smoke. Smoking in itself is associated with timed-out and relaxing I believe. Cigarettes provide a quick fix for feelings of boredom, anxiety and depression and, without their aid, it can be frightening - or at least uncomfortable to confront these emotions head on.
Unfortunately, the key to dealing with this kind of temptation is to do exactly that SMOKER don't always realize that the acute anxiety they feel will pass without smoking. It's not just your lungs you need to worry about. Smoking has been linked to cancer of the cervix and vulva, and osteoporosis. It's also associated with complications reduced fertility, hypertension, eye cataracts, back pains and heavy. There's also evidence that blocking of the arteries begins straight away.
Just one cigarette can dull your sense of taste and smell, make you more susceptible to coughs and colds, and reduce the function of the little hairs that sweep the dust out of your bronchial tubes. The statistics are frightening, so why do we take up the habit?....

Cigarettes - tips on how to quit; Smoking cessation

Below, some tips to help you quit smoking are listed. First and foremost, set a quit date and quit COMPLETELY on that day. To prepare for that day:

• Identify the times you are most likely to smoke. For example, do you tend to smoke when feeling stressed? When you are out at night with friends? While you are drinking coffee? When you are bored? While you are driving?
• Keep a diary to help you determine such risky times. Record each time you have a cigarette, including time of day and what you are doing.
• Make a plan about what you will do instead of smoking at those times that you are most likely to smoke. For example, drink tea instead of coffee -- tea may not trigger the desire for a cigarette. Or, take a walk when feeling stressed. Remove ashtrays and cigarettes from the car. Place pretzels or hard candies there instead. Pretend-smoke with a straw.
• Let all of your friends, family, and co-workers know of your plan to stop smoking and your quit date. Just being aware that they know can be a helpful reminder and motivator.
• Prior to your quit date, start reducing your cigarette use, including decreasing the number and strength of the cigarettes. However, DON'T do this simply to make your diary "look good!" Get rid of all of your cigarettes just prior to the quit date and clean out anything that smells like smoke, such as clothes and furniture.


Other tips that can help you quit and stay quit include:
• Enroll in a smoking cessation program (hospitals, health departments, community centers, and work sites frequently offer programs).
• Ask your health care provider for advice, including whether prescription medications (such as bupropion -- Zyban or Wellbutrin) are safe and appropriate for you.
• Find out about nicotine patches, gum, and sprays.
• Try hypnosis -- it works for some people.
• Avoid smoke-filled settings and situations in which you are more likely to smoke.
• Exercise to relieve urges to smoke.

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SEX vs LOVE

You might have heard it already, from a guy you know. It’s a line that goes something like this:1. “If you love me, you’ll have sex with me.”
2. “I love you, I just want to show you how I feel.”
3. “If we love each other, there’s nothing wrong with it.”
4. “Sex is natural.”

At one time or another, most girls hear some version of one of those lines. But guess what?
None of them mean you have to sex with someone—even if you are truly, madly, deeply in
love with that person! Love and sex are two different things! Love and Sex are not the same thing. Love is an emotion or a feeling. There is no one definition of love because the word “love” can mean many different things to many different people. Sex, on the other hand, is a biological event. Even though there are different kinds of sex, most sexual act have certain things in common. Sex can be intercourse, or it can be something that does not involve penetration, such as oral sex.


Here are just a few of the differences between love and sex:· Love is a feeling (emotional).
· There is no exact “right” definition of love for everybody.
· Love involves feeling of romance and/or attraction.
· Love does not necessarily have to include, or lead to, sexual activity.
· Sex is an event or act (physical).
· Sex can lead to sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).
· Sex can make two people feel closer, but it can also hurt, or cause two people to feel farther apart.
· Sex proves nothing.
· On its own, sex means nothing.

Should you have sex? So what if you’re in love, and you think it’s the real deal…should you have sex? Nobody—not even the person you’re in love with—can answer this question for you. You have to think about your own personal values and feelings.
You teenage years bring a lot of changes in how you feel about yourself, family, and potential love interests—even if you don’t think about sex. No matter what your feelings on sex are, it may be smart to wait until something “feels right.” And even then, it’s a good idea to wait a month or two.
If it’s truly love, and it’s meant to be, it will survive and even grow stronger without sex. If it isn’t, then you will be really glad you waited and found that out, before you got intimately involved on a physical level.

Ways to express love without sex:
There are millions of non-sexual ways to show someone you care about them. You can show a person you care for them by spending time with them. Go to the movies. Or just hang out and talk. If you are with someone you really like, then anything can be fun.
There are other ways to feel physically close without having sex too. These ways include everything from kissing and hugging to touching and fondling each other. Just remember that if you’re not careful, these activities can lead to sex.
Some activities that aren’t sex can also lead to STD’s, so educate yourself and be aware of the risks.
Plan beforehand just how far you want to go, and sticks to your limits. It can be difficult to say no and mean it when things get hot and heavy, so make sure you have a plan for how you’ll handle that kind of situation.

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Down- There Hair Concerns:

PUBIC HAIR can extend from just below your navel pass your underwear line and down to your upper thighs. Most men have hair inside their butt checks and around their anuses. Because pubic hair helps reduce friction during sex, you may experience a little chafing when you rub against your guy.But other than that, going bald doesn't pose any other health risks. Pubic hair also traps odor caused by normally occuring sweat and bacteria, so the more hair you have, the stronger the odor. Reduce it by showering with a mild soap at least once a day as well as after a workout!...

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BLOGSPOT Soundtrack:

A Whole New World - (LYRICS)
I can show you the world Shining, shimmering, splendid
Tell me, princess, now when did
You last let your heart decide? I can open your eyes
Take you wonder by wonder
Over, sideways and under
On a magic carpet ride

A whole new world
A new fantastic point of view
No one to tell us no
Or where to go
Or say we're only dreaming

A whole new world
A dazzling place I never knew
But when I'm way up here
It's crystal clear
That now I'm in a whole new world with you
Now I'm in a whole new world with you

Unbelievable sights
Indescribable feeling
Soaring, tumbling, freewheeling
Through an endless diamond sky

A whole new world
Don't you dare close your eyes
A hundred thousand things to see
Hold your breath - it gets better
I'm like a shooting star
I've come so far
I can't go back to where I used to be

A whole new world
Every turn a surprise
With new horizons to pursue
Every moment red-letter
I'll chase them anywhere
There's time to spare
Let me share this whole new world with you

A whole new world
That's where we'll be
A thrilling chase
A wondrous place
For you and me...

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The best person in my life!...

Well, guys... I really don't like discussing my life with other people because I just want to focus on the more positive things, such as my family. I usually just keep things to myself. But if I am going to be asked, I'd opt to share my life with others who haven't known me yet... At some point, I do need to be honest with myself and say, I've had an affair with a man before, to some extent I do need to identify as GAY... To fall in love with someone with same sex doesn't mean you're gay, it just means sexual orientation is a fluid thing. I love living alone but if ever I had the chance of meeting a wonderful man I would grab the opportunity of choosing him because that's what my life to be. Never I imagined myself living with a woman, but circumstances made a way I got married. But for now, we're not really meant for each other anymore! I love meeting and be with a man who is intelligent, handsome and has a great body. I am looking for that wonderful and sensual WHITE GUY who can be my partner and bring me the happiness I have been missing in that part of my life. I have or can have most anything I want. (Within reason - so don't get the wrong idea... More to come on this subject when we meet or correspond.) Now I just need that missing part. Someone to share it all with. Someone who is appreciative and respectful and doesn't take things for granted. Unlike most Asian guys I met. A man to experience life with the good and bad. At this point in my life it will be mostly good. Someone I can give to and spoil and will do the same for me. To say Thank You for the biggest and littlest things - being grateful. Someone who will be there till the end. A man who is submissive yet has an opinion. It's real simple,... However, we must also have other mutual interests and be willing to try each other’s interests. I would love to meet a man who can show me and teach me new things...

As a matter of fact, I already have HIM who I think compliments me or should I say completes me. I spent days and nights thinking of what I really loved about him and the more I get to know him, the more I found things to love about him. I can't get mind off him the whole day. Even at work I am inspired to do well because there's is someone I look forward to meeting every night when I got home. In fact, I am dying to show him how I really feel, but we're miles apart. I guess that's a part of loving someone. ...having the patience to wait.

Always remember this honey:
"I LOVE YOU for the rest of my life. I can't stop dreaming of you. Without you, I would never feel this way every single day and night. I am willing to give you whatever you want and to fight for our love. I am willing to spend my whole life with you just to show how much I love you. Loving you would be the sweetest thing to do in my whole life!..."

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Safer sex and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)

· there are many diseases that can be caught whilst having sex, some of which cannot be cured and some of which can be fatal.
· fortunately, it is possible to have a lot of fun without risking your life too much if you know what you are doing:)
safer strategies:
· he may well be infected without knowing, and even if he does know he may choose to keep it secret or lie about it. the most effective way to stay infection free is to take complete responsibility for your own protection and assume that any guy you have sex with could be carrying HIV or another STD.
· never assume you will be able to spot someone who has HIV or other STD. usually, the guy will appear perfectly fit and healthy regardless of any STD infection.
· be aware that drink and recreational drugs can adversely affect your judgment and make you take risks during sex you might greatly regret later on.
· unprotected sex within a monogamous relationship is only safe if you have both been tested after 3 or more months of monogamy and your partner really is maintaining the monogamy. how long have you known him? have you any doubts whatsoever about his behavior when you are not there?
· the more sex you have with different guys, statistically the chances become higher that you will at some time be exposed to various infections, although all it takes is a single unprotected sexual encounter to become infected.
· if you slip up and allow unsafe sex to happen, you may find that your doctor can offer you "Post Exposure Prophylaxis" (PEP) - this treatment can reduce the chance of infection taking place when you have been exposed to the HIV(AIDS) virus. this treatment needs to be started within 24-36 hours of exposure.
· be aware that having one STD (e.g. Gonorrhea) can make you more susceptible to infection with something more serious (e.g. HIV). always have your health checked out if you think you might have picked up an infection.

fucking (anal sex):· fucking is higher risk than most other common sexual activities, so always make sure a condom is worn for the entire time - it reduces the risk of HIV infection by an estimated 95%.
· if two guys fuck without a condom, the guy who is being fucked has the biggest risk of receiving an infection (about 8 times higher for HIV). even if the guy doing the fucking pulls out before cumming there is still a risk of HIV infection from his pre-cum, although the risk may be somewhat reduced.
· when fucking, always make sure that you use plenty of water-based lubricant, as this will reduce the risk of the condom breaking. even without a condom, it also reduces the risk that the guy getting fucked will receive small cuts/abrasions in his anus, (these further increase the risk that any infection is transferred). oil based lubricant must NOT be used with a rubber condom, as it will dissolve it.
· after the guy who is doing the fucking has come, he should (carefully) withdraw whilst holding on to the base of the condom to make sure that it remains in place.
sucking (oral sex):· sucking a guy's cock is regarded as lower risk than allowing him to fuck you, because the inside of the mouth is more resilient to infection than the rectum. the risk of infection transfer is greater for the guy doing the sucking than for the guy being sucked.
· the safest way to have oral sex is to make sure a condom is used the entire time, there is a significant possibility of infection with HIV or other STD if you don't.
· but because oral sex carries a considerably reduced 7% of the risk of anal sex, some guys choose not to use a condom, although please note:
1) oral sex without a condom is high risk if you have any sores in your mouth or your gums are bleeding.
2) brushing your teeth shortly before having oral sex will increase the risk of infection. brush your teeth before going out on your date, not when you bring him home for sex.
3) the risk of infection is increased if you allow the guy to cum in your mouth, or if he produces any pre-cum inside your mouth…

wanking (masturbation):· mutual masturbation is generally regarded as the safest sexual activity, because there is less risk of exchange of body fluids.
· even so, if a man is carrying the HIV virus his cum is highly infectious so cum should be treated with care. if 1 guy comes first, the other guy should never use his cum as lube (the urethra is a site of infection), and you should be especially careful if either of you have any cuts or sores - these provide a route to infection if they come into contact with the others blood, cum or pre-cum.

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STDs you should aware of

· Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV/AIDS)HIV is not very infectious (it is highly unlikely to be caught by simple touching or even kissing with tongues), it can be fatal though so extreme care should be taken to avoid infection. the best protection from HIV is to always make sure a condom is worn during penetrative sex.
·a HIV infection cannot be cured, although certain drugs exist which can help control the virus. the side affects of these drugs can be extremely unpleasant though, not everyone is able to take them. The virus can also build up resistance to these drugs (quite quickly if the drug regime is not adhered to very strictly) and for some guys it is just not possible to identify a treatment that helps, so do not reduce your vigilance against HIV infection just because you believe it to be "treatable".
· someone with HIV can look and feel completely healthy, and so for many people the first time they become aware that they have the HIV virus is when the disease advances to AIDS (the point where the HIV infected person falls ill). this can occur many years after initial infection though, so do not assume that just because someone looks fit and healthy that they do not have HIV.
· the only way to be sure that you are not infected with the HIV virus is to be tested - if you are worried, visit your doctor or local health
center to arrange this. further info on HIV/AIDS...

Hepatitis
·there are various different types of hepatitis, all of them affect your liver and can have serious health consequences or even be fatal. hepatitis is much more infectious than HIV, the normal route of infection is similar (having penetrative sex without a condom or via infected blood), although it is also possible to contract hepatitis through rimming (licking a guys anus). hepatitis B can be caught through oral sex, and hepatitis A can be even be caught from kissing.
· fortunately, a vaccine exists for hepatitis types A and B and all gay men are advised to have it if possible - visit your doctor or local health center to arrange this. no vaccine yet exits for hepatitis C however, so a condom remains the only protection from this when having sex. further info on hepatitis...

Syphilis
·syphilis is a bacterial infection, the first signs of infection is usually sores on your cock or anus, sometimes combined with swollen glands - these usually heal within 4-6 weeks, although 1-6 months later a reddish-pink non-itchy rash will appear on the trunk and extremities accompanied with general feeling of illness.
· syphilis can cause serious health problems if left untreated but may be easily cured with antibiotics, so if you think there is a chance you have it visit your doctor or local health center to arrange a test. further info on syphilis...

Gonorrhea
· gonorrhea is a bacterial infection, the first signs of which are usually pain when urinating (pissing) and a white milky discharge coming from your penis (cock).
· gonorrhea can cause serious health problems if left untreated but may be easily cured with antibiotics, so if you think there is a chance you have it visit your doctor or local health center to arrange a test. further info on gonorrhea...

Herpes
·herpes is an viral infection marked by painful, watery blisters in the skin or mucous membranes (such as the mouth or lips) or on the genitals. in an infected person, these blisters will not always be present but will continue to re-appear, often during times of stress or tiredness. it is possible to catch herpes from someone even if the blisters are not present, although if the blisters are present infection is far more likely.
· herpes cannot be cured, although a condom can protect you from infection from genital herpes. once infected, anti-viral treatments exist which can help you manage the symptoms.

Genital warts
· genital warts are a highly infectious viral infection, and are spread during oral, genital, or anal sex with an infected partner, and appear as fleshy, small raised growth that looks like cauliflower.
· sometimes, genital warts will disappear of their own accord, although because they are highly infectious and equally might not go without treatment, you are advised to visit your doctor or local health center to arrange treatment if you contract genital warts. further info on genital warts...

Pubic lice (crabs)
· crab lice are small insects that are between 1-3mm long. generally the first signs that you have been infected with crabs will be itching around your groin and possibly noticing small specks of blood in your underwear.
· you can confirm the diagnosis yourself by close examination, as the lice should be visible (often attached to a strand of pubic hair).
· treatment of crab lice is simple - visit your doctor, local pharmacy or drug store and explain the problem, you will be provided with a cream which to apply on the affected area.

3) I'm worried i may have an STD
·where do i get professional advice? your best route to getting professional advice will depend on your location, as the health care in different countries is provided in different ways.
· your normal doctor should be able to help, if you do not wish to approach him/her about the problem, you may find that there is a STD clinic in your area (possibly attached to your local hospital). the advantage of going this route is that it may be possible to receive anonymous testing, meaning the fact that you requested the test (and the results) will not be added to your medical history file.
· because of it's serious implications, if you wish to be tested for HIV (the virus which causes AIDS) please think about how you would react to the news should it be bad news. do you have family or friends who you could talk to about it who would be supportive?

4) Meeting up with strangers safely
· Here to help you have fun meeting and getting together with other guys! but whilst 99.9% of the guys on here are honest and decent people, please remember there is always a risk when meeting someone you have never met before that their intentions are not what they seem. to keep your fun safe, please bear in mind the following points when meeting up with a guy for the first time:
never give him your home address before you have met him
think twice about giving someone your phone number - especially in countries where gay sex is illegal (the police can use it to get your address)
before going on an internet date, tell a friend where you are going and what site you met the guy on
always arrange to meet in a neutral, public space where there are plenty of other people. a cafe or bar is ideal!
only invite him back to your home (or go somewhere private with him) when you have spent enough time with him to be sure of his intentions
always break off the date if you have a "sixth sense" telling you that something is not quite right. even if this makes him angry, remember that it is always your right to do this!

5) Alcohol, Drugs and Sex
· some people enjoy mixing alcohol or recreational drugs with sex, since doing so can result in lowered inhibitions.
· please consider the following before you choose to have sex under the effects of alcohol or recreational drugs:
are you familiar with the effects of the substances that you are intending to take before sex? some drugs (such as crystal meth) have a reputation for making a normally conservative individual completely discard condoms and safer-sex practices
do you know the guy you're having sex with well enough to know that he will not take advantage of your state of lower personal control? do you trust yourself well enough that you will not do something that you will regret later on? it can be incredibly stressful and worrying to wake up in the morning, knowing you allowed unsafe sex to happen the night before whilst drunk
many people believe that working to create a sexual situation where you feel confident and safe enough to express yourself fully whilst sober can result in sexual pleasure which far exceeds that possible when your senses have been dulled with intoxicants...

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What MEN really want?...

Many of us have the tendency to "forget" them. So here is: the TOP FIVE EMOTIONAL NEEDS OF MEN (because we know that they're not going to tell us what they are).
1) Sexual fulfillment
2) Admiration
3) Domestic Support
4) Attractive Spouse
5) Recreational companionship

If any of a spouses five basic needs are unmeet, that person can become unhappy, dissatisfied... and vulnerable to the lure of another who can offer him the attention and affirmation he misses at home.
So if want to affair-proof marriage (for instance) don't wait until you smell someone else's perfume in his car to make drastic changes. It starts with the small thing. It starts today...

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My Name's Originated from:

Aladdin, protagonist of a tale named ‘Aladdin and the Wonderful Lamp’, which is included in most standard editions of The Arabian Nights (also known as The Thousand and One Nights). The tale takes place in the mountains of China where the boy Aladdin lives with his poor widowed mother. Aladdin is sought out by a Moroccan sorcerer, for whom he is to recover an oil lamp from a subterranean treasure grove. When he refuses to deliver the lamp while still inside the cave, the evil sorcerer deserts him. With the aid of a magic ring, Aladdin is rescued. By chance he discovers that the lamp commands a powerful demon, becomes rich, and eventually marries the princess. As the sorcerer learns about Aladdin's luck, he approaches the princess in disguise, tricks her into giving him the lamp, and has the demon kidnap her. Aladdin manages to find the sorcerer's hiding place, kills him, and recovers his wife. The tale did not form an integral part of The Arabian Nights prior to their Western reception. First published in 1712, the tale originates from Antoine Galland's autobiographically influenced reworking of an alleged oral performance in 1709 by the Christian Syrian narrator Hanna Diyab, who also contributed the tale of ‘Ali Baba and the Forty Thieves’ to Galland's Arabian Nights. Arabic manuscripts discovered later proved to be forgeries. Soon after its original publication, the tale became extremely popular in chapbooks, literary adaptations, children's literature, stage performances (above all, British Christmas pantomime), and movies. In 1992 it was further popularized by a Disney animated film (and a number of sequels), which modified Aladdin into a cunning trickster character. By the end of the 20th century, it has come to represent the standard Western notion of the classical oriental fairy tale. Indeed, the image of the omnipotent demon hidden inside a humble lamp has become proverbial in everyday language, literature, politics, science, and commerce...

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