Thursday, August 7, 2008

How to Know a guy who is not virgin

How do you know if the guy you are dating is no longer a virgin? In most cases, virgin males are quiet and modest. Some guys who are not virgin are loud and talks dirty most especially in a friend's conversation. Some guys who are not virgin are noisy and lack of respect for girls. Not like a virgin man ,he seems very quiet and modest towards girls. Some men who are no longer virgin are aggressive and manipulative with women. They tend to act like the boss in the group, not like some virgin men who have lower pride with other people. Some virgin men will shake their fingers and become cold when girls touched their hands. But for some men, who are not virgin ,God, when you close to them, they are like a shark who are ready to swallow you.

Instructions:
Step 1 - Some virgin male seems to shake their hands if girls approach them but for men who are not virgin, they will grab you right away if you are alone with them.
Step 2 - Virgin men seems to act innocent and scared with women but men who had sex experienced acts aggressive and the girls are the one who are scared of them.
Step 3 - When you go out with men who had sex experienced, be very careful because as soon as they get a chance they are going to force you to a place that you do not want. But some are educated and afraid to break the laws and hurt women.

Tips & Warnings:
Do not go out for a guy who had sex experienced, if you are not sure of him.

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How to Embrace

Hugs are as varied as the people who give them. Typically, hugs can be categorized into three groups: the family hug, the friend hug and the lover's hug. A lover's embrace is more erotic with a lot more body contact than the other hugs. Hugging can be very sexy if done right. If you want to change a platonic gesture into a sensual embrace, then you've come to the right place.

Instructions:
Step 1 - Be aware of your body. Body control is important if you want to provide the best embrace possible for your partner. The sensual hug involves a lot of body contact where you get to feel your partner's body. You don't want to squeeze too tightly or too lightly.

Step 2 - Start off with a light hug with eye contact. If you're a man, begin by gently holding your partner's shoulders. Slowly glide your hands down her arms and to her waist. Move your hands to her lower back so that your arms envelop her.

Step 3 - Press her to your body. Breathe into her hair or neck and massage her lower back with your hands. If you're a woman, put your arms around your partner's neck and press yourself against his torso or shoulder.

Step 4 - Move the to the next stage by slowly rubbing your bodies together. Keep the movements small, kind of like gentle swaying. Let your hands roam up and down your partner's back, sides and buttocks.

Step 5 - Lie down and hold each other firmly with your arms and legs wrapped completely around each other. Rub each others arms, necks and backs. You can enjoy this feeling of closeness as is or let things process to the next level naturally.

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How to Give a Sensual Massage

Knowing how to give a sensual massage can be a good way to spend quality time with that special someone or a person you're looking to have as that special someone. Follow these steps to give a sensual massage and you'll have your someone special melting from your touch in no time.

Instructions:
Step 1 - Prepare a quiet area to give the sensual massage. Play relaxing music and if you like candles, set up aromatherapy candles to set the mood.

Step 2 - Have the person you're massaging lie down on the bed or a nicely prepared pallet on the floor. Since this is a sensual massage, ask the person you're massaging to remove all of their clothing.

Step 3 - Wash your hands, dry them, make sure they're warm and apply a massage oil of your choosing.

Step 4 - Place your hands on the lower back of whomever you're massaging. With your hands on either side of their spine, start applying pressure and rub your hand up the person's back to their shoulders. From there rub your hands over their shoulders and then back down their back. Repeat a few times.

Step 5 - Start from the lower back again and knead the flesh repeatedly, slowly working your way up to the shoulders and then neck. Once at the neck work your way back down to the lower back, kneading as you go. Repeat a few times.

Step 6 - Take your fingertips and run them gently down the back of the person you're massaging. Without applying any pressure, gently rub them back up to their shoulders. The idea is to use your fingers like feathers across the skin of whomever you're massaging. Repeat a few times to give subtle, sensual clues with the massage.

Step 7 - Incorporate objects in your massaging such as ice, feathers and balls made for massages or anything else you can think of that will feel nice and give a stimulating, sensual massage. Incorporating different objects increases the sensations for the person receiving the massage.

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How to Give yourself a PROSTATE massage!

This is a really easy way to masturbate for guys that like more than an Oral or penetrating sexual act. With a little practice, You can become your own best masseur; each massage gets better and more exacting with practice. You may never have considered this option before and it is less evasive than having another male penetrate you. All couples can also enjoy this experience as well. Just know where the "gold" is and how to go for it!

Things You’ll Need:
• A complete shower
• Clean rectum
• Time alone or a willing to try partner
• KY lubrication, there are lots to choose from
• Hand towel or warm cloth

Step 1 - Begin by showering THOROUGHLY, this means inside and out. You will want to do a self exam to assure that you have cleaned out your rectum completely. Nothing will stop this adventure like unwelcome skid marks or a fudgey mess.
Water is NOT a lubricant! It can, as a matter of fact, be quite abrasive. You will want to towel dry well externally and know through exploration the target anal area you are about to enter.

Step 2 - Now it the time to find your private space and relax a bit. Do what ever relaxes you, be it foreplay, a glass of wine or a favorite video. Lay down a clean bath towel on your bed and ready the hand towel, washcloth and lubrication to the bedside.
You will want to have all the essentials ready. Just like and explorer, using the proper tools will speed things along. For the feint of heart, you might also want to use, at least at first, a rubber or latex glove. Do what ever makes you most comfortable. Using a wedge pillow is a great idea, and will help you get where you are going

Step 3 - Start by lubricating the exterior sphincter. Now lube your finger of choice and go inside your anus. If yo are at all erect, you will feel the firm mass of the prostate just behind where the penile shaft attaches to your trunk. This is your target, treat it gently, at first and you can become more aggressive later.
Some of you will feel that your arm and fingers are just not long enough to reach the prostate. Try several positions until you are assured that you have made contact.

Step 4 - Now, very gently rub and massage the firm mass of the prostate. One or two fingers are preferred, but one is generally enough. If a partner is involved, verbalize what is happening and avoid being too whining or aggressive.
A simple in and out motion should do the trick. Find what feels best to you. This massage, although feeling quite sensual and sexual is actually good for the health and flow of the prostate.

Step 5 - As you do your massage, you should begin to realize a flow to the penile shaft. After much practice you will eventually achieve a new type of orgasm; one without penile penetration. This may or may not be you goal. If it is, go for it. If not use the massage as a precursor to a more obvious male sexual outcome.
When you have thoroughly finished, by feeling fulfilled or by ejaculation, you will want to ease out and clean up.

Step 6 - A very warm cloth is nice to finish the massage. Any physical will tell you that the rectal manipulation is also good for your health. So clean up well. Some enjoy the aftermath as much as the actual massage.
Only you can determine what you want from this massage and how far you will want to take the stimulation. If you are uncomfortable with doing it alone, ask for a partners help. Giving and receiving this anal penetration can be quite the foreplay to greater things!

Be open to the experience!

Tips & Warnings:
• Prepare all necessary tools in advance
• Take a thorough shower
• Clean up after the massage
• Use a large beach or bath towel
• Be open to exploration
• NEVER be rough
• Don't hurt yourself or place anything in the rectum that can create vacuum or tearing
• Know when to stop
• Know when it is safe to share your experience.

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