How to Give yourself a PROSTATE massage!

This is a really easy way to masturbate for guys that like more than an Oral or penetrating sexual act. With a little practice, You can become your own best masseur; each massage gets better and more exacting with practice. You may never have considered this option before and it is less evasive than having another male penetrate you. All couples can also enjoy this experience as well. Just know where the "gold" is and how to go for it!

Things You’ll Need:
• A complete shower
• Clean rectum
• Time alone or a willing to try partner
• KY lubrication, there are lots to choose from
• Hand towel or warm cloth

Step 1 - Begin by showering THOROUGHLY, this means inside and out. You will want to do a self exam to assure that you have cleaned out your rectum completely. Nothing will stop this adventure like unwelcome skid marks or a fudgey mess.
Water is NOT a lubricant! It can, as a matter of fact, be quite abrasive. You will want to towel dry well externally and know through exploration the target anal area you are about to enter.

Step 2 - Now it the time to find your private space and relax a bit. Do what ever relaxes you, be it foreplay, a glass of wine or a favorite video. Lay down a clean bath towel on your bed and ready the hand towel, washcloth and lubrication to the bedside.
You will want to have all the essentials ready. Just like and explorer, using the proper tools will speed things along. For the feint of heart, you might also want to use, at least at first, a rubber or latex glove. Do what ever makes you most comfortable. Using a wedge pillow is a great idea, and will help you get where you are going

Step 3 - Start by lubricating the exterior sphincter. Now lube your finger of choice and go inside your anus. If yo are at all erect, you will feel the firm mass of the prostate just behind where the penile shaft attaches to your trunk. This is your target, treat it gently, at first and you can become more aggressive later.
Some of you will feel that your arm and fingers are just not long enough to reach the prostate. Try several positions until you are assured that you have made contact.

Step 4 - Now, very gently rub and massage the firm mass of the prostate. One or two fingers are preferred, but one is generally enough. If a partner is involved, verbalize what is happening and avoid being too whining or aggressive.
A simple in and out motion should do the trick. Find what feels best to you. This massage, although feeling quite sensual and sexual is actually good for the health and flow of the prostate.

Step 5 - As you do your massage, you should begin to realize a flow to the penile shaft. After much practice you will eventually achieve a new type of orgasm; one without penile penetration. This may or may not be you goal. If it is, go for it. If not use the massage as a precursor to a more obvious male sexual outcome.
When you have thoroughly finished, by feeling fulfilled or by ejaculation, you will want to ease out and clean up.

Step 6 - A very warm cloth is nice to finish the massage. Any physical will tell you that the rectal manipulation is also good for your health. So clean up well. Some enjoy the aftermath as much as the actual massage.
Only you can determine what you want from this massage and how far you will want to take the stimulation. If you are uncomfortable with doing it alone, ask for a partners help. Giving and receiving this anal penetration can be quite the foreplay to greater things!

Be open to the experience!

Tips & Warnings:
• Prepare all necessary tools in advance
• Take a thorough shower
• Clean up after the massage
• Use a large beach or bath towel
• Be open to exploration
• NEVER be rough
• Don't hurt yourself or place anything in the rectum that can create vacuum or tearing
• Know when to stop
• Know when it is safe to share your experience.