ALADDIN Best Kept Secret!...: Friday, June 20, 2008

Yes. It's a living hell with someone who doesn't respect, care, and love you anymore. It'd be too much of an agony to bear.
Both parties should have the freedom to move on and perhaps marry someone will shower each of them with all the love they deserve. It'd be nice if they could have the chance to marry again. If you're unhappy and there's nothing you can do to save the marriage, why stay?...
I definitely want divorced to be legalized here in our country. It's so sad to hear stories about couples who will stay together even though they aren't happy anymore - either masyadong martyr ang isa sa kanila or it's too expensive to file for an annulment.

Definition of Divorce:
Divorce or dissolution of marriage is the ending of a marriage before the death of either spouse. It can be contrasted with an annulment, which is a declaration that a marriage is void, though the effects of marriage may be recognized in such unions, such as spousal support or alimony, child custody, child support, and distribution of property.

A divorce must be certified by a court of law, as a legal action is needed to dissolve the prior legal act of marriage. The terms of the divorce are also determined by the court, though they may take into account prenuptial agreements or post nuptial agreements, or simply ratify terms that the spouses have agreed on privately. Often, however, the spouses disagree about the terms of the divorce, which can lead to stressful (and expensive) litigation. A less adversarial approach to divorce settlements has emerged in recent years, known as mediation, an attempt to negotiate mutually acceptable resolution to conflicts.

Here are some fave local positions and to examine the sexual psyche of passionate Pinoys:

1) LEGS ON SHOULDER --- It’s like hanging from the monkey bars all over again!
HOW–TO: This passion pose posts strains to quite a number of muscles; it’ll be wise to warm up first. Place both legs (or just one, it’s fine both ways) on his shoulders and keep them straight or bent as he enters you. You can vary the depth by lifting your back at an angle for deeper penetration or keeping him at a distance by laying flat and forming an L shape with your torso and legs. He can fondle your breasts while he’s on top and you can do some cupping of your own as you reach for his jewels for extra playfulness.
WHY PINOYS LOVE IT: It allows for deep penetration and easy thrusting for guys. They can also control the tightness by bringing your legs together or them apart. If your guy’s a confident stud, this move would most likely be one of his favorites.
WHY IT’S A BINGO BANG FOR YOU: This position will make you feel like you’re wide open, so some Pinays shy away from it. However, if you’re at ease with your partner and are comfy letting loose, you’ll feel like a flexible femme fatale.

2) GIRL ON TOP --- Play dominatrix, get in control, and achieve ultimate pleasure.
HOW-TO: Have your guy lie on his back and insert his penis into you straddle him. Lean close to each other as you do a slow grind. Try doing this while balancing on the balls of your feet and toes as he lies flat on the bed for deeper penetration. One variation that works wonders: Sit up with your backs leaned away from each other. Hold onto each other’s ankles for support and grind away.
WHY PINOYS LOVES IT: Why most pinoys go for Maria Clara types, they secretly like it when a girl can take control of her own pleasure and isn’t afraid to show it.
WHY IT’S A BINGO BANG FOR YOU: With you in pumping control, you have the power to slow down or speed up your pace for peaking. Woman on top may put you in the spotlight, so it also appeals to Pinays who can moan with an audience.

3) STARGAZER --- This move will instantly have you seeing stars!
HOW-TO: Straddle your man like you would going on top, then slowly be your legs on your sides, or stretch them out towards the front. Lie on your back over his legs, so both of you look like you’re stargazing—only intertwined.
WHY PINOYS LOVE IT: In a Men’s Health survey, a substantial 24% of Pinoys look at porn at least once a day. With both of you lying face-up, he gets his porn fix as he takes in a full view of you.
WHY IT’S A BINGO BANG FOR YOU: If you’re the type to get conscious with a sexual stare down—like some Pinays are—then this is the position for you as there is minimal eye contact. This is also for the chicks who have no qualms about solo sex: Your hands are free to touch yourself or direct his digits to your bliss buttons.

4) THE BUM LIFT --- It’s so good, you just might kick him in the face.
HOW-TO: Lie on your back, lean on your elbows, and arch your back up as he enters you, with your ankles locked on his shoulder. Have him cup your butt or wrap his arms around your thighs for support. Try not to squeeze his head with your ankles when you orgasm.
WHY PINOYS LOVE IT: Although it’s secretly easier than it seems, it’s still a show of manly strength. In this position, your man gets to feel more in control. But since it’s also extremely pleasurable for you, your satisfied moans give him an ego boost.
WHY IT’S A BINGO BANG FOR YOU: G-spot stimulation and the angle of penetration can cause a stimulation overload. The skewed angle makes you feel like his penis is in contact with a lot more of you. Plus, his lifting you off the bed is a guaranteed turn-on for Pinays who go gaga over macho, take-charge Pinoys. If you love go-getting guys, you’ll love this.

5) REAR ENTRY --- Man’s best friend proves to be deep. In this case, spanking is optional.
HOW-TO: Get in position by leaning on your knees and elbows, with your man entering you from behind. Control the depth of penetration by moving forward and backward along his shaft. Vary your position for different sensations: FDAF (Face Down, A** Up) to get him deep into you, or kneel in front of him and have him cup your breasts as he enters you for a cozier stance. Just remember that when it comes to rear entry, vigor is a must.
WHY PINOYS LOVE IT: “Men enjoy dogie-style sex because it allows us to be voyeurs—we can see the action happening right in front of us” Think about it: For them, the Rear Entry is just like watching porn, only better, because they’re actually participating and playing star in the steamy act. And like we said, Pinoys are big on porn.
WHY IT’S A BINGO BANG FOR YOU: Rear Entry is one the best for deep penetration. It also frees up both your bodies to thrust at each other, with minimal bed-creaking (perfect for keeping your session a secret). This kind of position also lets the head of the penis hit your most sensitive parts, especially your G-spot. The result. It guarantees genital joy for you and gives you orgasms like no other.

6) THE CROSS --- The “helicopters” move turns into a daring dance that’ll lift you to a climax cloud.
HOW-TO: It’s one of the most rhythmic positions and resembles a sensual slow dance. Assumes the modified missionary for starters and have him slide clock- or counterclockwise so you both form an X. Knead on each other by moving your hips from side to side (he should be doing most of the work). If you’re feeling rowdy instead of romantic, have him turn all the way around, like a helicopter blade, to change the romp session’s mood entirely.
WHY PINOYS LOVE IT: Though a bit awkward at first, the cross is a handy move to keep in the back burner for an instant libido lift. It feels daringly different, but ensures a steady rise to peaking. For Pinoys with short attention spans, this position promises a new way to achieve what the trusty moves can.
WHY IT’S A BINGO BANG FOR YOU: It provides an entirely different sensation from the usual thrusting positions. Doing it with you on top gives you more control, pressing your legs together makes the feeling tight and slow, and the angling of the bodies allow for more fondling of your genitals This is great for Pinoys who get off on new bedroom repertoire.

7) REAR VIEW ROMP --- It’s the Pinoy version of the Reverse Cowgirl. It’s great for moseying, trotting, or galloping to the nearest O-station---with the lady holding the reins.
HOW-TO: Have your man lie down and guide his penis into you, keeping your back towards him. Control the rhythm by bobbing your hips up and down so you can trot on your butt or any way you want to. You can also control the amount of physical contact by stretching your body over his or sitting upright.
WHY PINOYS LOVE IT: It seems that Pinoy guys love things that come with a challenge. Since this move puts his hand-on-you access under your control, he’s kept on the edge wondering if you’ll let him touch all the pleasurable spots of your body or limit his access to just a mere view of your backside. Plus, this position progresses upon your pace and makes him feel that he’s relinquishing his power and putting himself at your mercy.
WHY IT’S A BINGO BANG FOR YOU: Admit it: To some extent, you like being in control. This move is enjoyed by most go-getting Pinays who bring their high powered drive into the bedroom. With the Rear view Romp, the sexy Pinay gets to focus on herself first---and veers away from being him-centric.

8) MODIFIED MISSIONARY --- Let your Os reach “Oh, my God!” level.
HOW -TO: Assume the missionary position, guiding your man into you. Once in place, have him gently move each leg over and outside of yours. Place a pillow or elevate both your legs to vary the angle of penetration. Penetration might be shallower, but the friction is increased, enhancing the pleasure, tenfold.
WHY PINOYS LOVE IT: Some Pinoy guys like the rubbing a bit rougher.
WHY IT’S A BINGO BANG FOR YOU: The eye-to-eye and skin-on-skin contacts amps up your emotional bond with him. This is a favorite among many senti Pinoys (read: the types who blurt out “I love you” as they peak). As the both of you come simultaneously, with your eyes locked together, you feel that you’re at the center of his universe, giving you an emo high like no other...