I would say yes, sex and sexual issue are very important. Crucial even. If sex was unimportant then cheating would also be considered unimportant. After sex, both partners' brains release chemicals that make then feel happy and most importantly connected and in love. Regular sex bonds a couple together. Needless to say this is far from the only thing bonding a couple. Any physical affection, cuddling, kisses, hugs, holding hands can have this effect as well as the connection from the shared experiences, conversations, similar interests etc. Sex will not always make or break a relationship but a terrible sex life (absent, violent, whatever) or a cheating partner can break a relationship. Sex is more important to some people than others. Some people prefer frequent sex, some people are once a week or even less often. These differences can cause problems. The key is compromise, sometimes you will be having sex that you aren't fully in the mood for, sometimes you will want and go without, as long as one of you isn't always giving way to the needs of the other you can work it out. Sex isn't all there is to a great relationship but it is an important part.
Monday, July 14, 2008
Is sex important to a relationship?
What is the true meaning of love and being in love?
Being in love is Infatuation that someone experiences for another person after it becomes a sense of security which is often built by trust, comfortability, and excitement.
True love is the sense of security one preserves from their object of desire. their target offers the individual a range of emotions that the person feels they require, be it hope, happiness, courage, etc.
Unfortunately these feelings do not always last long, then becomes a sense of familiarity, comfortability and routine.
Meaning of love has many interpretations. From my understanding love is about being true to oneself. If this is the emotion of the highest purity then how can it not make us be free, liberated, safe about being ourselves? Love is paradoxical. It is dependent on the people involved but surely it should make us feel better about ourselves and be able to discover out depths. We are limitless... to such magnitude that we need a companion to discover what is within... love should do that. Rather than being adaptive, compromising, accommodating, forgiving etc which in any case a good human would do for each other (in some cases) should we not expect 'love' to free us from all these boundaries? If this is a transcendental emotion, then I would imagine it would break the shackles than impose more of its own.
Do you two make a bad couple?
The possibilities of our new post-break up life may even surprise
us -- new confidence, new career and possibly even new love. Life can be better after a break-up. We explore why parting can indeed the sweetest of sorrows. When a relationship is finished, deep down we're aware it's the start of something new within ourselves!...
Do I look sexy as Leonardo DiCaprio?
Somebody said that I am sexy as Leonardo... Hehe! It seems paranoid to think so. Who has been telling all these lies? If you are not a host of a showbiz talk show, then you have no license to make a living gossip and intrigue. Gossiping is a guilty pleasure, but just think what damage your bad-mouthing can do to yourself and to other people.
Back to the issue. Well, as I used to say. ...I'll go with the flow!...
Leonardo DiCaprio Biography
Is Leonardo Sexiest man in America?...
Born: 11 November 1974
Birthplace: Los Angeles, California
Best Known As: Heartthrob star of the 1997 film Titanic
Leonardo DiCaprio has been an international superstar since the box office megahit Titanic (1997, directed by James Cameron). In front of the camera since childhood, his first big role came in 1991, on the television series Growing Pains. As a young movie actor he won critical raves for his role in This Boy's Life (1993, with Robert DeNiro), and an Oscar nomination for What's Eating Gilbert Grape (1993, with Johnny Depp). His performance in 1996's Romeo and Juliet proved his bankability as a leading man and heartthrob, and after the success of Titanic (with Kate Winslet), DiCaprio became a favorite of the tabloids, with a party-boy reputation. He kept on working, however, and has since grown into one of Hollywood's top movie actors. Along the way he appeared in Woody Allen's Celebrity (1998, with Gretchen Mol), starred in Steven Spielberg's Catch Me If You Can (2002, with Christopher Walken) and made three movies with Martin Scorsese: Gangs of New York (2002, co-starring Cameron Diaz), The Aviator (he was nominated for an Oscar for playing eccentric innovator Howard Hughes) and The Departed (2006, starring Matt Damon). His performance in Blood Diamond (2006, with Djimon Hounsou) brought him another Oscar nomination. Off-screen DiCaprio is an advocate for environmental protection, an issue he became publicly involved with after he and the makers of The Beach (2000) were criticized for the environmental impact their filming had on locations in Thailand.
Knox and Vivienne make 8 for Jolie-Pitt family
NICE, France - Brad Pitt was emotional but calm, Angelina Jolie laughed and chatted. The world's most famous celebrity couple were joined in emotion during the birth of their twins — a boy and a girl — and all "are doing marvelously well," the doctor who delivered the babies in a seaside hospital on the French Riviera.
The newborns — Knox Leon and Vivienne Marcheline, born one minute apart — are the ultimate million-dollar babies, with experts estimating their first photos will fetch a fortune. For now, mother, father and newborns are resting out of the public eye on the fifth floor of the Lenval hospital, behind blue mirrored windows that provide sweeping views of Nice's sun-drenched beaches, but specially treated to deflect the prying lenses of paparazzi.
Jolie's obstetrician, Dr. Michel Sussmann, said the 44-year-old Pitt was at Jolie's side during the delivery, looking on as the doctor performed a Caesarean section to deliver Knox, weighing in at slightly over 5 pounds, and Vivienne, who weighed 5 pounds. Jolie, 33, is expected to stay in the hospital for a few more days and that she now needs rest.
The four other Jolie-Pitt children — Maddox, 6; Pax, 4; Zahara, 3;
and Shiloh, 2.
The mayor of Nice, Christian Estrosi, center, holds the birth certificates of one of Angelina Jolie's twins, Knox Leon Jolie-Pitt, as he and Dr. Michel Sussmann, Jolie's obstetrician, left, pose for the media, at the Lenval Hospital in Nice, southern France, Sunday, July 13, 2008. U.S. actress Angelina Jolie has given birth to her twins, one boy Knox Leon and a girl Vivienne Marcheline. The obstetrician who delivered the twins, Dr. Michel Sussmann, told The Associated Press that the actress, the babies and Jolie's partner, actor Brad Pitt, "are doing marvelously well."
A view of the the Lenval hospital where U.S actress Angelina Jolie has been admitted in Nice, southern France July 4, 2008, and where she expects to give birth to twins.
