Saturday, August 23, 2008

How to Keep Your Boyfriend Happy

Step 1 - GIVE HIM SPACE! If you do not give somebody air, how can they breathe? If you are dating somebody that has never had a serious relationship, or have been dating the same person for years, they are going to need their space. HE NEEDS TIME TO BE A MAN! Let him play some ball with his friends, go to the bar without you, be alone for a while! If you cannot give him time alone without trusting him, you should not be dating. How can let him live and enjoy his life without trusting him?

Step 2 - KEEP IT SIMPLE! Guys do not want to know every little detail about how your day went and how struggled with your hair all morning and how somebody is driving you crazy. After a long day of work all that they want to hear is that you love them and that everything is ok. Why add more stress to his life? It only leads to fights, and yelling.

Step 3 - ITS NOT ALL ABOUT YOU! A relationship takes 2. This means you have to give a little to get a little. Stop complaining just because he did not add enough sugar to your tea! So what if he rented a movie that you do not approve of. He has the right to his own opinions as well.

Step 4 - DON'T TRY TO CHANGE HIM! If you love him, you have to love him for who he is. Stop buying him clothes that he will not wear, don't make him tattoo your name on him if he is against tattoos. Don't buy him on a veggie diet if he loves meat. He needs to know that you love him for who he is or he is going to become insecure.

Tips & Warnings:
Never forget to let him know that you love him, and you do not have to tell him every 2 minutes. If he does something that does not make you happy, and then you yell at him, be sure to say "I love You" shortly after. It take 10 compliments to make up for one insult.

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